Ben doesn’t have a problem with pets in a relationship just as long as you “keep them off the bed during sex.” Originally from Orleans, this punk rocker, mortgage case manager and Zelda’s bartender says he is looking for someone who is independent, patient and, of course, STD-free. His favourite position is in a sling, because “it makes everything more butch.” Would Ben ever have sex on the first date? “Depends if it’s a pity date or not,” says Ben. The wildest place he has had sex was in the bushes next to a cemetery. That’s one way to wake the dead.

If you want to reach out to Ben from beyond the grave, you can e-mail him at ben_lapierre@hotmail.com